One is safest of all if he/she does not indulge in penetrative sexual intercourse. One is also safe if he/she is not in a stable relationship where both the partners are free of HIV and neither of them has any other sex partners. Sex without penetration is another way to have safer sex that greatly decreases the risk of getting infected with HIV. One can have a great deal of stimulation and pleasure through caressing, hugging, kissing, and massaging different parts of the body. Safer sex also includes using a condom - but, using a condom correctly, and using that every time of having sex.